advice Archives — Miki Dedijer

Your secret lover

Your partner doesn’t know your secret lover called Plan B. Plan B is softer, more loving, doesn’t smell of onions. […]

Coming out of our house, I see my youngest son peeing all over our new patio. I’m incredulous, and tell

We all have a fire to tend. It burns inside of us. A good fire is welcoming. It draws people

Your child isn’t listening to you. You can’t make her do as you tell her. And that can be wildly

Timely validation helps our child master herself. When we notice that she can now safely handle a knife, we help

Your child cleans her room, plays a beautiful tune on the saxophone, draws an apple tree by a lake. And